Coaching
is by telephone so it doesn't matter where
you live in the world. You will be calling me at
(540) 929-4703 East Coast US time (UTC/GMC -5 hours)
What
is the basic philosophy of coaching?
There
are many models to describe the coaching philosophy, however the
Who-What-How model proves to be the most common and fundamental
way of outlining this partnership.

A coach helps
you explore who you are, what you really
want and how to attain it. This is achieved as the
coach
holds you in a field of curious exploration through skillful questioning,
listening, reflecting, clarification and
suggestions.
Depending on
your learning style and needs, a coach will
partner with you to customize a framework in areas such
as 'homework', accountability, feedback methods and
structure. A coach helps you stay on track until your
goals are achieved.
Although the
why question may come up in the beginning
of a coaching partnership, this question falls more into the
field of therapy if it becomes the ongoing focus of
discussions. A coach, rather than focusing on why things
came to be the way they are, will reframe the discussions
to help you look more closely at your current tendencies,
skills, needs, values, what has not been working and how
this can be changed.
Consulting on
the other hand will focus more on just the
what and how of a more impersonal problem (technical,
financial etc.) without requiring much information about
who the individual or entity is beyond the problem being addressed.
For example a small business needing to
address the way employees set up data input strategies
will not require information about the employees' personal interests,
talents, relationships, health or emotional
needs beyond the scope of the problem at hand.
Doro's
Style of Coaching
Doro's
style of coaching is based on change from the
inside out as well as from the outside in. Both approaches
are required in tandem to make lasting and sustainable
change.
Doro's
unique coaching method is
The VISION Process©
Visualize,
imagine
and clearly define what you want
Inquire,
investigate and research your options
Strategize
a well defined plan of action
Implement
your plan one step at a time
Obtain
your goal!
Nurture
yourself and celebrate your accomplishment!
Changing
your life takes focus and support
The
VISION Process©
from beginning to end takes time, focus, inspiration
and clear intention. We all get lost in our busy days and often
our best intentions are forgotten or put off. Professional coaching
is the solution to this common scenario. It keeps you focused,
on track and accountable until you attain your goal.
What
is Transpersonal Coaching and how is it
used for stress reduction?
Transpersonal
coaching considers the concept of
transpersonal states of awareness.
"The
common denominator of this, otherwise rich
and ramified group of phenomena, is the feeling of
the individual that his consciousness expanded beyond the usual
ego boundaries and the limitations of time and space." ~Stanislav
Grof
Transpersonal
coaching aims to help a client make changes
from the inside out as well as from the outside in. Both
focuses are required in tandem to make true and lasting
change. Transpersonal coaching involves a simple knowledge
of the four brain wave patterns
and their associated negative
and positive chemical/ hormonal influences on the body
and mind, and the emotional / spiritual experiences that accompany
each pattern. We all have the capacity to
access these patterns consciously through practices of meditation,
mindfulness, breathing, biofeedback and many
other techniques of self nurturing and thereby alter our life experience
and the way people respond to us.
Life coaching is entirely customized to your needs and
wishes. However, here is an example of what you can
expect:
~ Discover
what you want in your career and your life
while also acknowledging that what you ultimately want
is simply happiness
~ Learn
to manage your state of mind,
health and sense of well-being by discovering and utilizing
a method that works for you, i.e.. Meditation, biofeedback,
audio technology or energy work.
~
Brainstorm, create, attain your goals, build, explore, adventure,
play and then...
As
Your Coach My Job Is To:
- Model
mindfulness, learning and growth
- Listen
with focus and presence
- Maintain
self-awareness
- Nurture
the partnership with respect and compassion
- Establish
and honor an explicit structure for the
coaching relationship
- Makes
clear choices with you about the coaching
process
- Ask
questions that deepen your understanding
of your situation
- Help
you articulate desired outcomes
- Ask
you to generate a course of action
- Provide
direct and honest feedback
- Direct
your attention toward your capabilities and
potential
- Provide
important information, tools, and language
- Challenge
and stimulate your thinking process
- Encourage
you to take action
- Offer
opinions and/or recommend a course of action
